Some Thoughts on Speaking in Front of a Group
This mind is a wonderful thing. It starts working the minute you're
born and never stops until you get up to speak in public. (anonymous)
According to The Book of
Lists, most Americans fear public speaking more than they fear death.
Tips on Being a Better Speaker:
- Preparation is vital. Think about WHAT
you need to say, HOW you want to say it, and WHY it is important to the
group.
- Practice your presentation. You may
want to ask a friend or roommate to listen to your comments. You may prefer
privacy: stand in front of a mirror and stage a "dress rehearsal."
Do whatever you have to do to boost your self-assurance that you will be
an effective speaker.
- Know your audience. Your presentation
will be better received if the group members can see that you have prepared
your comments with them in mind.
- Be concise. Say what you came to say
- and stop.
- Keep notes to a minimum. Reading to
people is the surest way to put them to sleep - as children's bedtime stories
demonstrate! If necessary, list major topics or headings on index cards;
long notes or full texts will prove to be more of a bother than a help.
- Be yourself. [Who else are you going
to be anyway?]
- To be more confident, look and act
confident. Wear your sharpest, most professional outfit. Realize that a
certain amount of anxiety before speaking is actually good, since it shows
that you want to do well. Look at the audience and maintain eye contact
with the "friendly faces." And if you forget something, just
move on to your next point (you listeners won't know unless you tell them!).
- Seek out opportunities to speak in
front of groups. The more you do it, the easier it gets!